September 29, 2012
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I dont mean to sound like a whiner but i guess it is whining
Andrew and i jsut finished doing our budget for October and he didnt remember my birthday, so no money got set aswide for that, i am turning 30 this year, to me this is a big deal, but i guess to him it dont matter
Feeling so sad right now
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I hope he realizes what he forgot and makes your 30th birthday the best ever and one you will never forget. Best wishes!
I am sorry, Terri.
Some husbands just don't get it!!!!! Big Bummer.
I don't know what to say, but I think it would be appropriate for you to discuss it with him.
I think this could be a resentment builder if not put on the table of communication.
Praying.
frank
Thirty was the worst birthday for me emotionally then to top it off, he didn't plan anything. I think you should tell him it is important to you because maybe he just doesn't realize how important it really is to you.
@JM_in_SC - i agree, but it feels weird to have to remind him that it is ya know what i mean.
I'm sorry. I hope it just slipped his mind and he's not being intentionally uncaring.
That really sucks, I am so sorry. You should totally talk to him about it.
However don't let others poop on your party! My husband and I use to be super broke and could never afford anything. We had to keep things simple for birthdays. We would normally just make our favorite meal and watch our favorite show. It isn't much but it worked for our budget and we enjoyed our time together.
I bet it matters more than you think. Happy earlier Birthday!